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    <title>LA Premiere of The Year or Paper Set For Feb. 12</title>
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    <published>2008-01-10T16:22:21Z</published>
    <updated>2008-01-10T16:27:42Z</updated>
    
    <summary>When officials began issuing marriage licenses to same-sex couples in 2004, this country went to war over a word.  How different is a &apos;gay marriage&apos; from a heterosexual one?  THE YEAR OF PAPER follows three couples - lesbian, heterosexual and gay- through their first year of marriage and explores both
sides of the same-sex marriage debate. </summary>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Please join the filmmaker, narrator and stars of the Los Angeles premiere of <a href="http://www.theyearofpaper.com">THE YEAR OF PAPER</a>!</p>

<p>Tuesday, February 12th 7:30pm<br />
Renberg Theatre, The Village<br />
1125 N. McCadden Place<br />
LA, CA 90038</p>

<p>The screening will benefit <a href="http://www.letcaliforniaring.org">Let California Ring</a>, the campaign for marriage equality. Suggested donation is $10.</p>

<p>Reception to follow with the couples, filmmakers and narrator, Peri Gilpin.</p>

<p>When officials began issuing marriage licenses to same-sex couples in 2004, this country went to war over a word.  How different is a 'gay marriage' from a heterosexual one?  THE YEAR OF PAPER follows three couples - lesbian, heterosexual and gay- through their first year of marriage and explores both sides of the same-sex marriage debate.  The film is being distributed by Frameline. </p>

<p>Event co-sponsored by: Freedom to Marry, the Human Rights Campaign, GLAAD, The Gay and Lesbian Task Force and <a href="http://www.outvite.com/?Cobrand=UPPAKO&Site=OutVite&vk=2099864917">Outvite.com</a></p>

<p>FOR TICKETS: <a href="mailto:kelly@theyearofpaper.com">RSVP to Kelly</a></p>]]>
        
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<entry>
    <title>LOGO Series, Be Real, Is Casting!</title>
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    <published>2007-12-14T15:58:05Z</published>
    <updated>2007-12-14T15:59:41Z</updated>
    
    <summary>Submitted by Linton Media Casting Call for LOGO Documentary Series, Be Real Be Real, a documentary series for LOGO (MTV/Viacom network) celebrating GLBT life in America, is currently casting for its second season. More specifically, we are casting for our...</summary>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Submitted by Linton Media</p>

<p><strong>Casting Call for LOGO Documentary Series, <em>Be Real</em></strong></p>

<p><em>Be Real</em>, a documentary series for LOGO (MTV/Viacom network) celebrating GLBT life in America, is currently casting for its second season.  More specifically, we are casting for our COMMITMENT episode.  </p>

<p>We are looking for couples 25+ years in age and older that have a compelling story they would like to share.  Whether it is tying the knot, proposing, or celebrating an anniversary—we’d like to capture on camera this momentous occasion in your lives.  This is an opportunity for you to share your ceremony and love story with LOGO viewers and help send a positive and inspiring message to the GLBT community.  </p>

<p>All inquiries and submissions may be directed to us <a href="mailto:bereal@lintonmedia.com">via email</a>.</p>

<p>We look forward to hearing from you!<br />
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<entry>
    <title>Bridezilla Is Casting!</title>
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    <published>2007-12-14T15:54:45Z</published>
    <updated>2007-12-14T15:57:31Z</updated>
    
    <summary>Submitted by WE Entertainment Casting Call For Brides! Are you planning a wedding in the next six months (NOV 07&apos; - APR 08&apos;)? Are your wedding preparations getting out of control? Are you swamped with a massive to do list...</summary>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Submitted by WE Entertainment</p>

<p>Casting Call For Brides!<br />
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Are you planning a wedding in the next six months (NOV 07' - APR 08')?<br />
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Are your wedding preparations getting out of control?  Are you swamped with a massive to do list for your big day?  Are you doing everything in your power to make sure your wedding day is perfect? <br />
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Do you think you have what it takes to be on America's top rated wedding show?<br />
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Benefits of participating:<br />
$$ All participants will be compensated generously! $$ <br />
Videographer included!<br />
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Interested? <br />
PLEASE CALL OUR CASTING OFFICE at:<br />
(213) 417-4437<br />
Or <a href="mailto:bridezillascasting@yahoo.com">e-mail us</a>.  <br />
Please include a photo of you and your fiancee along with your contact info.<br />
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<entry>
    <title>Mass Las Vegas Gay Wedding Event Announced</title>
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    <published>2007-06-13T17:02:02Z</published>
    <updated>2007-06-13T17:05:15Z</updated>
    
    <summary>FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE Vegasonesource.com in conjunction with LV Wedding Connection will host a mass Las Vegas gay and lesbian wedding event entitled &quot;Our Love&quot; on July 5th, 2007 to take place during Gay Days and Nights Las Vegas, July 4th...</summary>
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        <![CDATA[<p>FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE</p>

<p><a href="http://Vegasonesource.com">Vegasonesource.com</a> in conjunction with LV Wedding Connection will host a mass Las Vegas gay and lesbian wedding event entitled "<a href="http://www.gaydayslasvegas.com">Our Love</a>" on July 5th, 2007 to take place during Gay Days and Nights Las Vegas, July 4th - 8th, 2007. </p>

<p>LV Wedding Connection is very excited to brides and grooms celebrate this momentous occasion. Join this first of its kind Las Vegas mass gay and lesbian wedding. Make this one of the most special memories of your lifetime for only $225.00! </p>

<p>RSVP is required by June 29th, 2007. <br />
<a href="http://www.gaylasvegasweddingpackages.com">Review event details and make your reservation</a> </p>

<p>"Gay Days & Nights Las Vegas" is a trademark of Community Marketing Inc., Copyright © 2007</p>]]>
        
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    <title>Pioneering Online Boutique, GayWeddings.com, Gets Facelift As Momentum For Civil Unions Builds And Need For Gay-Friendly Wedding Services Increases</title>
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    <published>2007-05-17T03:23:02Z</published>
    <updated>2007-05-17T03:25:45Z</updated>
    
    <summary>GayWeddings.com today announced the re-launch of its web site, which includes a new storefront with free planning articles, free “Wed Pages” for couples, a gay-friendly vendor directory, consulting services, a community forum, news updates and more. The remodeled site and extension of services solidifies GayWeddings.com top rank at the forefront of the burgeoning same-sex wedding industry.</summary>
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        <![CDATA[<p>FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE <br />
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PIONEERING ONLINE BOUTIQUE, GAYWEDDINGS.COM, GETS FACELIFT AS MOMENTUM FOR CIVIL UNIONS BUILDS AND NEED FOR GAY-FRIENDLY WEDDING SERVICES INCREASES</strong><br />
<em>First e-Commerce Site for Same-Sex Unions Is Largest Resource of Its Kind </em></p>

<p><strong>WASHINGTON, D.C. (May 17,2007) </strong>– GayWeddings.com today announced the re-launch of its web site, which includes a new storefront with free planning articles, free “Wed Pages” for couples, a gay-friendly vendor directory, consulting services, a community forum, news updates and more. The remodeled site and extension of services solidifies GayWeddings.com top rank at the forefront of the burgeoning same-sex wedding industry.</p>

<p>Forbes.com estimates that if same-sex marriage were to be legalized in the United States today, it would pump $16.8 billion into the wedding industry, while a recent ResearchMarket.com survey projects the total buying power of the Gay Lesbian Bisexual and Transgender (GLBT) community to be $641 billion.</p>

<p> “As the leading online boutique dedicated to providing resources to same-sex couples who seek to affirm their life-long partnerships, GayWeddings.com is poised to change the landscape of the wedding industry through serving the underserved GLBT community,” said company president, Kathryn Hamm. “The tools on our updated site allow us to reach farther, to provide greater service and to truly fulfill the needs of same-sex couples around the world who wish to celebrate their love for one another through ceremony.”</p>

<p>Long-held stereotypes in American culture purport that -- straight or gay -- men want to play the field and women want to settle down and that members of the GLBT community are not interested in settling down in stable relationships. Shattering these stereotypes, lesbian and gay couples alike have organized commitment ceremonies, sought to have their relationships legally validated where recognition exists, and sued in jurisdictions where rights for same-sex couples do not exist. At GayWeddings.com, approximately 40% of its clients are gay couples, 60% are lesbian couples, and a burgeoning number of clients are friends and family members shopping for specialty wedding gifts.</p>

<p>Straight “Mother of A Bride” and company founder, Gretchen Hamm, embraces the market growth. “I’ve always said that recognizing the partnership rights of same-sex couples is not a matter of ‘if.’ It’s a matter of ‘when.’ We’re excited that the marketplace has begun to catch up with us and we are thrilled to serve so many happy couples. We commend the growing number of jurisdictions that have embraced partnership rights for same-sex couples and look forward to welcoming more states into the fold.”</p>

<p>Currently, five countries and Massachusetts fully recognize same-sex marriage. Meanwhile, 17 countries in addition to Oregon, New Jersey, California, Connecticut, Hawaii, Maine, Washington, Vermont and the District of Columbia observe civil unions, domestic partnerships or offer other legal recognition of same-sex couples; and, legislation awaits the signature of Gov. John Lynch in New Hampshire.</p>

<p>About <a href="http://GayWeddings.com">GayWeddings.com</a><br />
While planning a wedding for daughter Kathryn in 1999, Gretchen Hamm was frustrated by the lack of resources available to same-sex couples and thus founded TwoBrides.com and TwoGrooms.com – the first such online boutiques to cater to the GLBT community – that same year. In 2005, the mother-daughter team acquired GayWeddings.com, solidifying its position as the largest resource of its kind. Based in Dallas, Texas and Washington, D.C., GayWeddings.com serves the under-served GLBT community with its community forum, national gay-friendly vendor directory, wedding planning seminars, consultation services, personalized customer service and its online boutiques, which feature hard-to-find gay wedding items including certificates, invitations, cake tops, albums, guest books, personalized accessories and more. Through advocacy, relationship building and education, GayWeddings.com strives to affect change in the wedding marketplace. Visit us at <a href="http://www.GayWeddings.com">www.GayWeddings.com</a>. <br />
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    <title>Gay &amp; Lesbian Wedding Expo in New Jersey!</title>
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    <published>2007-03-07T13:53:17Z</published>
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    <summary>On Wednesday evening, March 21, the first ever New Jersey Gay &amp; Lesbian Wedding Expo will be held to present hundreds of wedding planning options to gay and lesbian couples throughout the tri-state region</summary>
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        <![CDATA[<p>For Immediate Release</p>

<p>Contact:  <br />
<a href="mailto:lisa@americanbride.com">Lisa Drozd</a><br />
<a href="http://GLWeddings.com">GLWeddings.com</a><br />
908-371-0900</p>

<p>On Wednesday evening, March 21, the first ever New Jersey Gay & Lesbian Wedding Expo will be held to present hundreds of wedding planning options to gay and lesbian couples throughout the tri-state region.<br />
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This free admission event will be held at the New Jersey Convention and Expo Center at Raritan Center in Edison from 6 pm to 9:30 pm. <br />
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Couples will find all the finest goods and services for weddings including a selection of caterers, locations, photographers, musicians, entertainment, floral designers, fashions, honeymoons, limousines, travel, registries, officiates, invitations, event planners and more.  Live music and fashion shows will also be presented.<br />
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Guests who would like to attend the Expo are encouraged to <a href="http://www.glweddings.com">pre-register</a> and will receive event updates, details, and confirmation.<br />
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For additional information contact Lisa Drozd at 908-371-0900 or visit glweddings.com.<br />
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The event is being presented by GLWeddings.com and Americanbride.com.</p>

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    <title>Welcome Civil Unions to NJ By Joining A Special Wedding Event</title>
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    <published>2007-02-19T15:53:25Z</published>
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    <summary>A DiVine Affair LLC, and Tailored Ceremonies invite you to be among the first couples to attend a “Premier” Group Civil Union Ceremony in New Jersey to be held on Saturday,  February 24, 2007.  Interested in registering?</summary>
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        <![CDATA[<p>For Immediate Release</p>

<p>A DiVine Affair LLC, and Tailored Ceremonies invite you to be among the first couples to attend a “Premier” Group Civil Union Ceremony in New Jersey to be held on Saturday,  February 24, 2007. </p>

<p>Allow yourself to indulge in this fully planned elegant affair that we have prepared for you. Your special day will begin with your arrival for the 10:00 am ceremony, performed by Rev. Jennifer Ansbach of Tailored Ceremonies, at the renowned <a href="http://www.branchescatering.com">Branches</a> in W. Long Branch, NJ.  Upon arrival, a tour of the grounds should include visit inside, where you can pick out your bouquet or boutonniere for the ceremony.</p>

<p>A photographer will be on hand to capture this historic moment at the ceremony, which will then be followed by a 4-hour brunch reception with cake cutting ceremony in an elegant ballroom with a 1-hour open bar and music provided by Create Excitement.</p>

<p>This is a special limited engagement so please register by calling (732) 458-1625 or email us at <a href="mailto:adivineaffair@yahoo.com">adivineaffair@yahoo.com</a> or visit us on the web at a <a href="http://www.adivineaffair.com">DiVine Affair</a> or <a href="http://www.tailoredceremonies.com">Tailored Ceremonies</a>. </p>

<p>Pricing for this event is $200.00  per couple and $90.00 per guest. Space is limited so please reserve early.<br />
<em><br />
*Photography is not included in the price. Pricing varies upon your package selection.</em><br />
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    <title>Get Married En Masse In Canada!</title>
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    <published>2007-02-19T15:45:56Z</published>
    <updated>2007-02-19T12:52:27Z</updated>
    
    <summary>Looking to get married or exchange or renew your gay wedding vows in good company? Consider heading to Calgary for a special event scheduled for April 1, 2007.</summary>
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        <![CDATA[<p>For Immediate Release</p>

<p>A FIRST IN CALGARY: A mass legal Wedding Ceremony for the LGBT Community will be held in celebration of the joy and love in marriage!</p>

<p><a href="http://www.askaweddingplanner.com/wbb " target=_blank>The 2007 WeddedBLISSBall</a> was conceived and will by officiated by Rev. Nadene Rogers in association with Lisa Hanslip of The Wedding Planner. The event is not only a celebration of diversity, but is further intended to honor the right of every person to love and be loved – as married in life. </p>

<p>Couples will participate in either “legally tying the knot” or simply “renewing their commitment vows” in the presence of family and friends. </p>

<p>The 2007 WeddedBLISSBall is a non religious, spiritual Celebration with Reception to follow.</p>

<p>This Event is sponsored by GayCalgary.comMagazine, Outlooks Magazine and the 2007 OutGames. Net proceeds will benfit the SHARP Foundation.</p>

<p>What: <a href="http://www.askaweddingplanner.com/wbb " target=_blank>The 2007 WeddedBLISSBall</a><br />
When: Sunday, April 1, 2007 at 4:00pm<br />
Where: The Muse Restaurant and Lounge - 107 10A St NW - Calgary, AB</p>

<p>Contact:<br />
Rev. Nadene Rogers @ 403.270-3432 or <a href="http://www.askaweddingplanner.com/wbb " target=_blank>visit the web site</a>.<br />
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    <title>Two Grooms In Switzerland</title>
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    <published>2007-01-29T21:38:32Z</published>
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    <summary>Every so often, we exchange emails with couples who are excited to share their stories. We recently enjoyed an exchange with Marc and François of Switzerland and are pleased to share their story with you!
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        <![CDATA[<p><img alt="FandM-LG.jpg" src="http://www.gayweddingfodder.com/archives/FandM-LG.jpg" width="250" height="188" alt="Gay Grooms" hspace="10" vspace="3" align="right" border="0"/></p><em>Editor's note: Every so often, we exchange emails with couples who are excited to share their stories. We recently enjoyed an exchange with Marc and François of Switzerland and are pleased to share their story with you!</em>

<p><strong>Says Marc:</strong></p>

<p>And who says Internet encounters don’t work out? </p>

<p>Needless to say that we were both skeptical about meeting through a gay internet site. </p>

<p>François ' first question was: "What are you looking for?" To which I replied: <br />
"Just someone normal, who smiles a lot, has a good sense of humor, is honest and feels good in his mind." And I added: "Acts older than his shoe size (except I didn’t use the word 'shoe'…"</p>

<p>Well, we met. As an animal lover, I have three dogs, 5 parrots, and at the time a 200 gallon aquarium with tropical fish. When François showed up behind the door, I said, ah, good you’re here; I have to walk my dogs! Care to join? And he did. </p>

<p>Our story is still a continuous fairytale.</p>

<p>We both thought as marriage as something we didn’t need to formalize our union. But, we changed our minds. </p>

<p>As for wedding plans, they seem a little complicated, we’re having three celebrations: </p>

<p>1) First in Switzerland, as the Swiss don’t recognize gay marriages, we’re signing what we call a Recognized Partnership Agreement. That will happen in March 2007. Friends, family, party and cake. </p>

<p>2) As I hold two nationalities, Swiss and Canadian, we’re holding another celebration in Montreal on August 3, 2007 with only close family and friends. </p>

<p>And, 3) On August 18th, is the big bang party.</p>

<p>The count: 120 Invitations, rsvp’s, catering, live music band, photographers, video, and a ceremony at the feet of beautiful Mont-Blanc bordering the Geneva lakeside. </p>

<p>And, at the top of our 6 layers cake, <a href="http://shop.gayweddings.com/index.asp?PageAction=VIEWCATS&Category=80">two grooms cake toppers</a>, which are not just porcelain figurines, but a true representation of our union and ongoing love.</p>

<p>Guys and girls, don’t think too hard or too long, JUST DO IT!</p>]]>
        
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    <title>It&apos;s My Wedding Blog Serial: Heidi &amp; Brittany - Nothing Has Changed And Yet...</title>
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    <published>2007-01-11T16:18:24Z</published>
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    <summary>Heidi and Brittany are back from Canada now,  and are struggling through life as usual.  They clean the house, feed the cat, snuggle together and treat each other with the same love and respect they always have. But, since they exchanged vows in Canada, everything is simultaneously different for them, too.</summary>
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<p><i>In the spirit of loving friends, famliy, fun & self-deprecating humor, we are pleased to introduce a new series to our Gay Wedding Fodder readers: <strong>It's My Wedding And I Can Cry If I Want To</strong>. Several couples have expressed an interest in sharing the stories of their wedding journies with <ahref="http://www.gayweddingfodder.com">Gay Wedding Fodder</a> and we are pleased to share this space with them. Each is in a different place in the wedding planning process but all love to weave a good yarn and all are happy to share with us their trials & tribulations, inspirations & tips, and tears of joy and tears of disappointment or dismay. Perhaps you'll recognize a bit of your relationship in these intallments?</i></p>

<p><strong>Nothing has changed, and everything is different.</strong><br />
By Heidi</p>

<p>We’re back from Canada now, struggling through life as usual. I’m working on the all the dreaded end-of-semester work and Brittany is attempting to manage her department in a retail store. Things are back to normal. We clean our house, feed our cat, snuggle together and treat each other with the love and respect we always have.</p>

<p>But everything is different.</p>

<p>We got our marriage certificate in the mail the other day, and our tears flowed almost as freely as the day the Canadian marriage commissioner pronounced us married. We stood before her fire, each with one flower in our hands, and professed our love in front of five of our family members. Brittany even tried to wipe a tear away with the bud of her flower, rather than let go of my hand. My cheeks hurt from an entire day of constant smiling.</p>

<p>They still hurt. Yes, we are still the same couple we were before we got married. We love each other just as we always have. We continue our lives with the same knowledge of who we are and what we will always be.</p>

<p>But now, it’s real. And we have the certificate to prove it! </p>

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<strong>Editor's Note:</strong> Would you and your partner like to participate in our Blog Serial, It's My Wedding & I Can Cry If I Want To? <a href="http://www.gayweddingfodder.com/archives/2006/07/introducing_a_blogserial_for_g.shtml">Learn more about the series</a> and contact <a href="mailto:kathryn@gayweddingfodder.com">Kathryn</a>.</p>]]>
        
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    <title>Happy New Year!</title>
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    <published>2007-01-03T03:44:49Z</published>
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    <summary>Happy New Year! New beginnings for this New Year of 2007: For me, I started 2007 with two new grandsons born in 2006! Kathryn and her life partner are the mothers of one of those grandsons, wondering if they will...</summary>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Happy New Year!</p>

<p>New beginnings for this New Year of 2007:</p>

<p>For me, I started 2007 with two new grandsons born in 2006!</p>

<p>Kathryn and her life partner are the mothers of one of those grandsons, wondering if they will ever have a full night's sleep again.</p>

<p>New Jersey proudly offers Civil Unions to its residents.  Which state will be next?</p>

<p>Every day more straight people become aware of the lack of equal rights for same sex couples.  Have you addressed this with the straight people in your life yet?  I have discovered my straight friends are shocked that there are over 1000 rights which same sex couples do not enjoy.  This conversation shifts how they hold the whole man-woman-marriage situation.  Begin some small conversations to discover for yourself how people react to this.  Together we will build a strong alliance of straight allies.  Please join me in this effort.<br />
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    <title>Same Sex Marriage Case Made In Maryland</title>
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    <published>2006-12-04T15:01:51Z</published>
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    <summary>Didn&apos;t we already know that same sex couples have stable relationships, make for great parents and that all families would benefit from legal recognition of their civil rights? For those of you still considering where you stand on this issue, take a look at what psychologists, social workers and child welfare advocates have to say on the matter of marriage equality for gay and lesbian couples.</summary>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Equality Maryland recently released a statement about Maryland psychologists, social workers, and <br />
child welfare advocates speaking out in support of same sex marriage. Perfect timing, as arguments will soon be heard in the Maryland courts regarding the right of same sex couples to receive the legal rights of marriage.</p>

<p>Here's their release:</p>

<p>In advance of oral arguments before Maryland's high court, prominent Maryland psychologists, social workers, and child welfare advocates spoke out today in support of marriage for same-sex couples.  At a press conference this morning at the Maryland chapter of the National Association of Social Workers, representatives of these groups stressed extensive, consistent scientific evidence showing that children raised by lesbian and gay couples develop as well as children raised by heterosexual couples.  </p>

<p>"The evidence is clear:  No matter how you measure it, children raised by same-sex couples are no different from their peers raised by opposite-sex couples.  In areas such as social development, psychological functioning, cognitive ability, and adjustment, there is no difference when comparing these kids," said Dr. Paul Clavelle, President of the Maryland Psychological Association. </p>

<p>Dr. Clavelle was joined by Dr. Ruth Fassinger, a psychology professor at the University of Maryland, who outlined several decades of social science research demonstrating that same-sex parents are just as capable of being good parents as are straight couples and that their children are just as likely to be well adjusted. Dr. Fassinger also stressed that there is absolutely no scientific basis for distinguishing between same-sex and heterosexual couples regarding parental and civil marriage rights. </p>

<p>Dr. Daphne McClellan, Executive Director of the Maryland Chapter of the National Association of Social Workers, noted, "Because of the extensive and consistent research on same-sex parenting, many of Maryland's prominent child health and welfare organizations, including the National Association of Social Workers, the Maryland Psychological Association, the Maryland Chapter of the American Academy of Pediatrics, and the American Psychiatric Association, have asked the Court of Appeals to find that it is unconstitutional for the state to continue to deny same-sex couples marriage protections for their families."  </p>

<p>Susan Leviton, founder of the Maryland child welfare group Advocates for Children and Youth and a longtime child advocate, pointed out the many harms faced by children of same-sex couples when their parents' relationships are not recognized. </p>

<p>"This ban on marriage for same-sex couples is especially hurtful to the many children who are being raised by same-sex couples," said Leviton.  "Denying children a legal relationship with both of their parents, and parents a legal relationship with one another, results in children being denied health insurance and inheritance rights, and can result in children being separated from their surviving parent if the biological parent dies." </p>

<p>The conference speakers represent a broad coalition of psychologists, social workers, and other child welfare advocates who filed friend-of-the-court briefs in Conaway v. Deane & Polyak, the case filed by the ACLU on behalf of nine same-sex couples, and a man whose partner passed away, seeking marriage protections for same-sex couples in Maryland.  </p>

<p>Also speaking at the press conference was Lina Ayers, on behalf of Families with Pride, a Maryland support organization for gays and lesbians raising children. </p>

<p>The ACLU filed the lawsuit on July 7, 2004, in partnership with Equality Maryland.  A Baltimore Circuit Court ruled in favor of the plaintiffs, and the state appealed that decision.  Oral argument will take place December 4, 10 a.m. at the Court of Appeals building in Annapolis.  </p>

<p>Biographical information on all of the plaintiffs, the legal documents, and other background materials, including a set of FAQs about Conaway v. Deane & Polyak, are available at the <a href="http://www.aclu.org/caseprofiles">ACLU</a>  and <a href="http://www.equalitymaryland.org">Equality Maryland</a>.</p>

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<entry>
    <title>Casting Call: Logo Series &quot;Be Real&quot;</title>
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    <published>2006-11-30T17:50:41Z</published>
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    <summary>Are you celebrating an anniversary? Planning a special wedding event? Introducing your partner&apos;s parents to yours for the first time? Just coming out? The Logo Network is looking for a diverse cross-section of GLBT Americans to tell their stories of struggle, solution and celebration.</summary>
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        <![CDATA[<p>For Immediate Release: </p>

<p>LOGO<br />
presents</p>

<p><strong>Be Real</strong></p>

<p><em>Be Real</em> is a new series for the Logo Network, celebrating the lives of the gay American diaspora.</p>

<p>Through compelling, first-hand testimony from real people, <em>Be Real</em> will chart the challenges and triumphs of the modern American lesbian, gay, bi & transgendered experience.</p>

<p>A series of portraits that explore themes of 'coming home,' <em>Be Real</em> will tell stories that demonstrate a reclaiming of faith, of family or of pride.</p>

<p>We follow people as they share their personal victories, created by bringing a partner home for the holidays for the first time, going to a high-school reunions as an 'out' adult, celebrating a milestone in a relationship, or highlighting the work of a local hero. <em>Be Real</em> will also tell the stories of pivitol events in real gay lives that will help tell the story of new beginnings in the GLBT community.</p>

<p>Scheduled for release in late spring of 2007, '<em>Be Real</em> has just gone into production and is looking for dynamic individuals to tell their stories. To submit your story, <a href="mailto:BEREAL@LINTONMEDIA.COM">contact the production team for an application.</a> To learn more, <a href="HTTP://WWW.LOGOONLINE.COM/ABOUT/CASTING.JHTML">visit their web site</a>.</p>

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<entry>
    <title>Michele &amp; Carey&apos;s Wedding Blog Serial:We Did It!</title>
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    <published>2006-11-13T16:32:58Z</published>
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    <summary>

Another pair of lesbian brides, Carey &amp; Michele, tie the knot in front of family &amp; friends and then ride off together into the sunset for a honeymoon in Hawaii. Read their wedding blog serial reflections here in their final update.</summary>
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        <![CDATA[<p> <img alt="candm-lg.jpg" src="http://www.gayweddingfodder.com/archives/candm-lg.jpg" width="200" height="169" alt="Lesbian Brides" hspace="10" vspace="3" align="right" border="0"/></p>

<p><i>In the spirit of loving friends, famliy, fun & self-deprecating humor, we are pleased to introduce a new series to our Gay Wedding Fodder readers: <strong>It's My Wedding And I Can Cry If I Want To</strong>. Several couples have expressed an interest in sharing the stories of their wedding journies with <ahref="http://www.gayweddingfodder.com">Gay Wedding Fodder</a> and we are pleased to share this space with them. Each is in a different place in the wedding planning process but all love to weave a good yarn and all are happy to share with us their trials & tribulations, inspirations & tips, and tears of joy and tears of disappointment or dismay. Perhaps you'll recognize a bit of your relationship in these intallments?</i></p>

<p>Well, we did it, we're married! We held our ceremony on October 27th, at sunset, with 75 of our closest friends and family. The weather was gorgeous and the whole evening came together perfectly. We had a Hawaiian themed wedding, with Hawaiian musicians playing the entiring evening, lei greeters handing out shell leis and orchids to guests as they arrived, and a Polynesian dance performance after dinner. With all of our friends and family there, and the energy of love that surrounded us, we could not have asked for a more beautiful or wonderful night. All of the hard work, stress and planning was well worth it. <br />
 <br />
Now that the family and friends have all gone home and the gifts are all unwrapped and put away, we are left with this wonderful feeling of being married. It feels safe, comfortable and right. Although we are not legally recognized as a couple, we - and all of our family and friends - know that we are married. We know it will take the government and the world a while to catch up, but that won't stop us from living our lives as partners and spouses.<br />
 <br />
One final thought before we head off to Hawaii for our honeymoon: If you and your partner are wondering if you should get married, if you're worried about what the world thinks and how hard it might be to be in a gay marriage in our society, our advice is DO IT ANYWAY. Don't let society or what others think define your live or your love. Love makes a family, plain and simple. In the end, that truly is all that really matters. <br />
 <br />
Thank you for letting us share our experience with all of you.<br />
Aloha!<br />
Carey and Michele</p>

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<strong>Editor's Note:</strong> Would you and your partner like to participate in our Blog Serial, It's My Wedding & I Can Cry If I Want To? <a href="http://www.gayweddingfodder.com/archives/2006/07/introducing_a_blogserial_for_g.shtml">Learn more about the series</a> and contact <a href="mailto:kathryn@gayweddingfodder.com">Kathryn</a>.</p>]]>
        
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    <title>How Two Grooms Celebrated Their Big Day</title>
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    <published>2006-11-06T16:16:21Z</published>
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    <summary>We always love learning about the amazing ways our clients and readers have chosen to celebrate the occasion of their exchange of vows! Today, celebrant Wilma Quantrille (of Celebrants USA) writes in with her telling of the celebration between two...</summary>
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        <![CDATA[<p>We always love learning about the amazing ways our clients and readers have chosen to celebrate the occasion of their exchange of vows!<br />
 <br />
Today, celebrant <a href="http://www.wilmasweddings.com">Wilma Quantrille</a> (of <a href="http://www.celebrantusa.com">Celebrants USA</a>) writes in with her telling of the celebration between two grooms who recently tied the knot. Perhaps some of her insights and ideas might be helpful to those of you who are recently engaged and looking for a few ideas for your gay or lesbian wedding ceremony?!?<br />
 <br />
Says Wilma:<br />
 <br />
The Commitment Ceremony of Aaron Dougherty and Barry Kriebel, Jr. illustrates any number of ideas, readings and rituals which can easily be adapted by other couples for their ceremonies.</p>

<p>When I first met with the couple Barry was ready with a pile of resources he had found on line, and we were ready to begin planning.  As much as possible, we, as celebrants with Celebrant USA, write a ceremony that is by the couple, of the couple and for the couple.<br />
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The ceremony was at once an exuberant affirmation of their love and an invitation to their family and friends to joyously embrace them as a couple. As the ceremony declared, “You both stand before this company as a testament to the universality of love, a powerful reminder that true love like yours transcends convention and reveals genuine courage.”<br />
 <br />
The ceremony was held at the <a href="http://www.collingswood.com/ae_theater_ballroom.html">Collingswood Theater & Grand Ballroom</a>, in Collinswood, New Jersey.  The grooms were both theater enthusiasts. Both Barry and Aaron spend a great deal of their spare time producing and directing middle and high school musicals so producing and directing their own wedding came naturally. As Barry said in his first letter to the celebrant, "My goals in life were to be on stage and to find the man I will love for life. The wedding is a fulfillment of both.'"</p>

<p>The ceremony was designed as a theatrical production, <em>The Perfect Pear</em>. The ceremony incorporated two soloists, the <a href="http://www.pgmc.org/">Philadelphia Gay Men’s Chorus</a>, and dramatic readers.</p>

<p>The ceremony began with a typical preshow announcer, in top hat carrying a cigar and martini glass and wearing pink fairy wings and matching feather boa. He announced all the prohibitions for the event from "Turn off your cell phones and beepers" to nine more "don'ts".  It was a hilarious list and set the mood for the fun to come.<br />
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Then followed a slide presentation on a huge screen on stage.  It showed Aaron and Barry from childhood to early dating to the present. The audience cheered.  <br />
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To begin, I recalled Aaron and Barry’s story with a strong emphasis on their union as a normal couple like any other wishing to live together enjoying their families and friends.  <br />
 <br />
I asked the guests if they would be more than witnesses. They were to be co-celebrants and I promised that, if they would open themselves fully to this experience, they would be transformed.</p>

<p>I affirmed the sacred nature of the union of these two men in the context of the Christian affirmation, “'You are the light of the world' and this is the day the light is revealed.  Love is a universal value, and wherever it is expressed, it is sacred." All in attendance were encouraged to affirm that “the power of love makes it possible for this breakthrough of freedom to live and to love -- no matter what others might think.”<br />
 <br />
A colorful ritual was the visual centerpiece of the wedding.  The two families, seated on either side of the stage, each carried to their groom a part of two floral garlands.  Beautifully designed by the florist <a href="www.eventhope.com">H & D Design</a> of Willow Grove, Pennsylvania, the base of the garland was grape vines, bent to fit together as a circle.  It was covered with greens and beautiful flowers.  As each groom received a part, he set it on the stage to form two interconnected circles.  The groom sat on chairs inside the two circles.<br />
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Once the vows had been affirmed and the rings given and received, the the two flower girls removed the overlapping pieces of the garland to form one circle.  In this circle the grooms stood as I affirmed their sacred union.<br />
 <br />
A litany, an adaptation from a Twelfth Century Roman Catholic Marriage Rite for Two Persons of the Same Gender, called for family and friends to “Bless Aaron and Barry that God will unite in love the couple joined in this Holy Union.”  Guests responded, “We pray to the Lord.”<br />
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The celebration ended with an affirmation of the theme of the day, “Two lives...two hearts...two families...joined in friendship, joined in love.”<br />
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