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Gretchen & Kathryn Hamm Share Their Thoughts On Gay Weddings on XM Radio Show: The Agenda with Joe Solmonese
Kathryn & Gretchen join Joe Solmonese, President of the Human Rights Campaign, and his co-host, Mary Breslaur, on HRC's satellite radio show, The Agenda, on XM Radio. Even if you missed the show last week, you can still catch us and what we had to say about same sex marriage...
How Can We Find A Ceremony Site?
Tiffany, a Gay Wedding Fodder reader, posted this question on one of our recent blogs: How can I find out where me and my soon to be wife can have a ceremony and reception for gays?
A Little Solitaire Confinement For Lesbian Brides
A new question has come to us and we'd like to share it with you: "I like the idea of giving my partner an engagement ring, especially because we don't plan on having a ceremony for over a year. We have been shopping for a solitaire, but now we have some reservations... What are other lesbians doing? If we do go with the solitaire, any suggestions for avoiding third-party assumptions?" Read on for our answer and to post your own suggestions!
Where Do We Begin?
Every couple, at some point, wants to know the answer to this burning question: "Where do we begin?" This is especially true for gay weddings, which -- though increasing in frequency these days -- aren't exactly run of the mill occasions with resources abounding. So, let's get started!Tips for Wedding Showers, Parties and Wonderful Recipes
Kathyrn and I often get asked, "What do you do at a gay wedding shower?" First and most importantly, it is great that people have this problem. They find themselves the maids of honor or best men for ceremonies for...A Common Conundrum For A Lesbian With Tailored Taste
Kathryn subs in for Gretchen in the "Ask Gretchen" column to answer a common question about what a pants-loving gal can wear to her lesbian wedding. Raise Your Glass And...Ummm....Congratulations on Your Gay Weding!
Toasts for gay weddings?!? I understood that there would be no public speaking... Here's what we have to say about the elements which we think work best in a congratulatory wedding toast.Ask Gretchen: Help Us With Our Guest List!
A groom-to-be wonders if he and his fiance should invite only family to the wedding or take the risk of extending the guest list to include members of his community whose response to the invitation is difficult to predict.Ask Gretchen: I Now Pronouce You...
Do I call him my life partner? My husband? A groom-to-be wonders what the proper etiquette is for referring to one's betrothed and how to find a term that best reflects his relationship.